Well a few days ago I texted her that I was ready to talk about what we're doing going forward, that I had processed a lot in a few days, etc. last night she texted if I wanted to talk then. I said no, not tonight. She said she wanted to "clear the air". So I went off to a bedroom and called her. We talked for maybe 15 minutes. She told me, I asked her a few questions. She answered everything. Was she honest? Who knows. We texted a little afterwards with more questions.
Oh and today she is still trying to balance out the guilt by bringing up my failures (porn, sleeping on the couch). I'm not buying it. ive owned my mistakes, I have forgiven myself, I am doing everything I can to make sure I don't commit them again, in any future R. That said, NOTHING I did warranted her sleeping with another man for 7 months, including while she was still intimate with me.
My response to her was much shorter than that, btw. I gave her a sarcastic "Yeah, they basically cancel out". I don't want to fight with her, though, so I will avoid passive aggressive stuff like that going forward
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
