Your wife's brain is being saturated by affair happy chemicals. Anyone in a new relationship is going to feel positive but its a biochemistry thing and at some point it wears off.

That's why we have to learn to make ourselves happy and that's what you can take from 2014. Its the year that mozza really started to learn what it means to be mozza so you can make yourself happy.

Regardless of what happens in your situation with your wife 2015 will be a good year for you and each one after will be better


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress