Married fast? Too late? Completely stuck :/

[Complex]

Planning on moving me or her to the guest room. Guess it's better.

I'm more worried that she's being too nice all the time, also out of a habit.
She wants to play "friends" it seems like. And she feels terrible about everything still.
Question: Is it a good idea to talk to her in a week or two (not right after I comd back on Monday) and tell her she should stop playing nice, stop lying, respect me and give me space so I can figure out my own stuff?
I feel like I really need to take charge of the situation now and basically let her know that I'm over this immature behaviour and want to move on with my life and that I still don't want this but I won't stand in her way.