Dude, we are almost BD brothers (my bd was 6/8/14) and I am watching your developments daily (along with sending of positive energy and thoughts). I also, for the first time after the BD am beginning to question, weather I would even like my W back. I mean, she has done so much against me and now my eyes are opening to the fact that my M was not ok either. I was not happy in my M, and I see that now, and somewhere along the way I forgot about me in the relationship, my needs, my wants, I was too busy fixing things for her. Well, no more, my turn now! smile