Maybell- For all of us on this forum - How many times has "We need to talk" ended well for any of us? Of course you feel sick! Don't feel bad about it!
By the way - talking about the stuff that "we've been avoiding" is a chickens*** thing to say. That's framing whatever thing he has to say in a way that makes it sound mutual.
By the way - If you can arrange for a time to speak after you've had an updated talk with a lawyer it would probably make you feel more empowered going in.
