[/quote] Actions speak louder than words.

Sounds like you still have lots of work to do on yourself and their will be no shortcuts or easy buttons around that.

How can you make yourself into a man that only a fool would leave? [/quote]

I agree. I think I have done that. I need to be stronger I think. I am 4 hours away from her and she is working 80 hours a week and most of the time 7 days. We talk, but I'm not sure what actions I can take other than spending more time with the kids doing family stuff. I know she likes that. The kids are 18 19 20 24 and 26 so I'm not sure they are all that excited about spending a bunch of time with me! I am all ears though


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She left 12/25/2013

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Wife moved out left 17, 18 an 19 yr olds at home when I was incarcerated for tax evasion to take a job and live 4 hours away.

I found DB 12/2014