Why were they wasted (wedding stuff)?

You've learned so much on this journey, nothing has been wasted if it brought you to a better place.

If I buy a wedding gift for someone and they later get Dd, that i wasted money on a gift isn't the first thing I think of.

You take so much responsibility for the feelings of others.

Maybe you should have a theme for this year, something like The One Where K Sets Strong Emotional Boundaries smile

Happy New Year, sweetie! May if be your best and brightest ever. Keep doing the work.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss