Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to lie for her in the same way I won't tell my kids this is a joint decision (I have said too much to D3 - not about OM or anything though)
It almost certainly won't come up unless I initiate the conversation and I'm assuming she doesn't already know.
I know SIL was actively encouraging pursuit of OM1 within a couple of weeks if BD
Last edited by jim0987; 01/01/1503:15 PM.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
