Thanks, Ggrass. And Card. And T. You are all right.
Here's something interesting: in spite of not getting nearly enough exercise and eating fairly poorly for the last several months, I have only put on about four pounds since he left, which makes me about two pounds heavier than when I graduated from high school. I haven't been snacking like I was in the marriage (I lost 25 lbs on the marital crisis diet).
Apparently I really was pretty miserable married to him. Much more miserable than I am alone. Why didn't I notice that?
He wants to meet Monday to talk about the stuff "we've been avoiding." Since such urgency is very unlike him, I'm going to mindread and guess that the new girlfriend wants him to make an honest woman of her. I guess my logistical balls are about to be set in motion. I'm pretty good at logistics. However, I may choose the date we meet.
Happy new year, friends, it's going to be a good one.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
