Hey Complex,

In my sitch after my W came home sating it was over with OM (she had one more romp after I figured everything out) we were under the same roof for a little over 2 months. It was rough. Best advice I can offer you is to plan out every day for yourself. Don't leave any time in "hope" your W will invite you someplace or will make time for you or want to join you in whatever you have going on. She probably won't give you the time of day you're hoping for and that expectation will leave you in a bad place, so decide for yourself now how you'll be.

Are you and she sleeping in separate beds?


UpperCut
Me: 28 W: 25
Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs
Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home)
S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15)
No kids