a young marriage in trouble

[lnlyshp]

Didn't have S last night so I went to the bar with a couple of friends. Its been a while since I've had a night out, so that was fun. Got a little drunk so my friend drove me home. Woke up early as W was dropping off S, she asks where my car was. I play dumb and say "Oh no! My car! Where is it?!" as I was just trying to be playful. I think I came off too obnoxious and she got upset with me. I was just trying to make a joke, I will have to watch that in the future.

Texted "thank you for dropping him off. sorry, i didn't mean to upset you." She responded "yep". She explained that she was worried I had got into a car crash or something and the way I joked made her upset. I mean, I get that I came off as rude but its not like I was being intentionally mean to her (like she is to me).

The whole shtick is getting real old. I don't want to give up but I'm getting really sick of being treated like I'm the worst person on the earth. I realize I can't change her attitude, but I'm still having trouble detaching and not hanging on every one of her words and feelings.