Cadet thank you! Honestly I would like to do both. I want to fix my marriage and fix myself. I know that one of my weakness is that when things don't happen fast I get discouraged. I know I have a lot to learn still on that one.
I also went back and read your first post to me. Detach and MWD advice of believing none of what she says and half of what she does. I guess I had forgotten those simple things... And when faced with this bumb I let it get me down.
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
