H's MLC#6- Now its about ME!

[mleigh4]

I think the same things in my head about when I was a WAS. No way was I this bad! I wonder if we were in our own fog and have forgotten things? I couldn't stand the sight of my H. I would dread going home each day after work, I only did for my S. I did not have good feelings and I figure if H had pushed me to feel something for him, it would have pushed me farther away. The best thing my H did was back off and give me the space I needed to find my way back home. Unfortunataly, we may be paying that price now.

I think if we look to our own experience, it may give us the strength and patience our H's need right now.

You sound good, I hope you have a great day. Happy New Year!