Oh, and as far as time goes, I had 16 months courtesy of the Federal Govt to take care of myself. I changed in the ways she wanted me to I believe, but for me. I lost 65 pounds. I am a much different man, and she knows it. That is why she started to vacillate on wanting me back I believe. She kept asking how did she know the change was real and lasting. I told her she just had to watch, and I told her I don't blame her for being skeptical..
Actions speak louder than words.
Sounds like you still have lots of work to do on yourself and their will be no shortcuts or easy buttons around that.
How can you make yourself into a man that only a fool would leave?
