H's MLC#6- Now its about ME!

[mleigh4]

2BHappy - I just caught up on your posts and I'm so sorry I didn't see these the other day. At first, I didn't like the way your H was circling around your questions. I swear, between him and my H and your sitch, I can totally relate, they are so alike. But I like the way he took the time to talk with you when you came home, and answered your questions. I especially like how he told you you can check his phone and emails. He is asking for time because he is not able to give anything right now. Think back to when you were a WAS, because I did the same, can you remember how you felt? How you just kind of needed time and space to figure out your feelings? How you just didn't feel that close connection with your H? It's possible this is how he feels, especially the way he explains it.

IMHO - with his openess, if it was me, I would give him the time. What have you got to lose? Use that time to continue working on you so that when the time comes to face the R, you are ready to either go with it or walk away.