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She knows I'm just ignoring her calls, though, which I don't feel is very strong action from me long term.


Are you ignoring her calls, or just putting her communications in the proper priority in your life right now?

Small, but important difference.

The main thing is to be prompt with anything related to S11, otherwise the rest can wait usually, imo.

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

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