Freddy, you know what the right thing to do is. I know it all sounds attractive..thinking about seeing this woman and all. But the truth is that neither of you are ready for that now. Leave it go for the time being.

Finish your stuff. Let her finish hers. If in the future it is meant to be, it will be.

You keep working on you.

Wishing you a wonderful new year, sweetie...filled with peace and the knowledge that you are right where you are supposed to be.