If the therapist is talking about what's best for the kids, that's very different from trying to figure out your own stuff. It's good that she got something from it and it may or may not open her up to the possibility.

If she is depressed you can't do anything about it but it does give some insight. It'difficult to get treatment, there's so much stigma. I put it off for years.

Not having more children is a big life changer. She's got a lot to work through.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss