She's made statements like this several times. The next time she does, I would say to her "i dont want a divorce, but if you think I'm going to sit here and be your Plan B while you do some sort of self-indulgent 'dress rehearsal' of our own marriage's dissolution, you're mistaken. If you want to leave I won't stop you, but I will then be moving on, with all that entails. "
-I do, but she will respond with that she wants me to find another person that can make me happier than her...and I think she truly believes it at her level.
What does your attorney say about this? Would it make a difference in any eventual divorce proceeding in your jurisdiction? Is yours a "fault" state for divorce, and can adultery be used as a cause in a divorce action?
Niether of us have attorneys nor do we want the expense. If it goes that way we are going to handle it ourselves if we can. We have a fault and no-fault clause in our state. I may be quite nieve here but I now believe that the EA was more in my head than reality.
We may start couples counceling next week...I guess that would give me some hope.
W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21 Kids S-15 D-13 S-11 OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14 Talk of Seperation 7/5/14 Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15 W moved out 2/1/15 I am moving on
