Thinking about it this morning and realizing that I am still attached to the outcome. I keep thinking about detaching, but am not doing it right. I still focus on the outcome of "fixing" my M. Not all the time,but I do come back to that. I need to not be so concerned about the outcome of my actions for the marriage, but to improve myself. That way no matter what happens there is a positive outcome of mentally and emotionally being in a better place. This has been a hard process for me.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
