Quote: The H and W get along well enough that divorce just does not seemed justified. Hence the hellacious pergatory stay we are forced to endure. Anyone ever read "The Marriage Map"? Has an interesting theory on the "stages" of marriage. Okay, so this is not a pickup line, but... Pshaw - that's a pick-up line, just admit it, CBH! So are you planning on clueing MW in on your possible D-Day of May?