Thanks cali.
I've read a small amount of Starsky's story - can't find it now though. And I have not had much input from the vets here.

Thanks for including this from RobX. I have seen this before as you can probably tell from my letter. I think this is exactly where I am at.

I want to add in the letter that this is not what I want, but it is necessary due to her decisions.

Thanks - and again I would appreciate input. Also - tomorrow's our anniversary and have always had our big life changing events on Jan 1. I don't think I want this to be one of them. Yeesh.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015