How's this for a serenade...Should I stay or should I go bumm bummm If I stay there will be troubleeeeeee if I go it will be DOUBLE....

I think many of us are in the same position here and I really see it in your sitch. The H and W get along well enough that divorce just does not seemed justified. Hence the hellacious pergatory stay we are forced to endure.

Sounds like MW is coming out of the mourning. That's got to be a good sign. Sorry to hear that you're potentially having family issues. (((((((((UD))))))))))

Okay, so this is not a pickup line, but...you and I have a lot of similar astrological signs in our fam. My oldest D is Feb, youngest D is March and ofcourse we are both Rams I just find that interesting.

Totally off the topic, but I digress...About year 7 of my mom's fight with cancer she decided to have a psychic party. Now this is totally bizarre because she was a HARDCORE catholic ( was just for procreation if that tells you anything). The reason I say this is that I often feel a little bit guilty about reading my horoscope and then I remember that party and feel like I'll be okay if that's my worst sin I, for one, STILL haven't coveted my neighbors husband Bad CBH, Bad!

So are you planning on clueing MW in on your possible D-Day of May?