Hi Bunches - well, there's a definite shift here. Remember to only respond with 75% of your W's enthusiasm in all of this.

I can't see any harm in extending a light hearted invitation - maybe to whatever you plan to do with S on new year's day - very much on the basis of ...Hey, S and I are doing X on NYD, you're welcome to join us... Of course, do this with no expectations, and if she says no, you can just say no problem and you and S can do what you planned anyway.

Remember the timid squirrell....


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus