H came over tonight to spend time with S8. He asked to sleep on the couch and I agreed. After putting S8 to bed I made tea for H and I and then excused myself for bed as well. Naturally I wanted to hang out longer with H and spend time with him but I do this every time he comes over and thought this seemed needy.
I've been laying in bed for the last 10 minutes and H just asked if we could talk about everything in the next two days and said that he would prefer S8 wasn't around.
I have to be honest, this scares the hell out of me. The last time H and I talked about the M was 3 weeks ago when we briefly discussed possibly trying counseling again. But then the convo ended in limbo and the next day H accused me of talking crap about his brother.
So I would say, positives: I set boundaries tonight and didn't sleep with or hang around H. Negatives: he wants to talk. I've been dreading this convo and don't have a good feeling about it.
Pray for me friends.
Me 26 ; H 26 S 8 Married less than a year Bomb 9/15/14 H moves out 9/15/14 H Files 11/21/14 Served D papers 12/31/14
