Going DownHill 3- Served with Divorce Papers

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I then left to visit a few buddies for a couple days. Had some good fun. Skidooing in the mountains, snow boarding, and visiting with friends I haven't seen for a couple years. All was really good and had a great time. They were really accomidating and really seemed like they cared for me. I told them of the gong show that was Christmas eve and gave me something to really think about. This was that there should be no way that her parents or any of her family should be actively involved in our situation.

I drafted up an email and sent it to W, her parents, and her brother stating that it was unacceptable to be actively involved in this situation. If you want to give W support that is fine. But there is to be no more contact with me about anything about this situation. I then said if there is. There will be no choice to do everything through the lawyers. I also clarified a lot of information that W's mother was on me about that she did not have the right facts. ie. She said I wanted to have kids new years eve and that was a holiday so W should have extra day. Not so. W mentioned to me in mediation a month ago that she wanted to go out for new years so I took the kids. I just could not think fast enough when everyone was jumping on me the night of Christmas eve.