Well that was fun. Prior to Christmas. W would not agree to any parenting plan for the holidays. I would suggest something. She would just say she did not agree with it and not give back any suggestions for changes. I ended up having the kids the 3 days before Christmas b/c my parents were out and Christmas eve. So I let the W have the kids Christmas day. I proposed that I was to have them the 26 and 27th then I would let her have them for 3-4 days after that. Did not get any reply except. I agree with Christmas and Christmas eve. When she came to the house to make the switch Christmas eve. I calmly said I was not leaving until we have a written agreement in place for the days each parent would have the kids on the holidays and that I would get the kids for next Christmas day.

Que the spew. "leave the house now", "I am not talking to you dumb SOB", etc. I kept calm and said I am not leaving until I know for a fact that the kids will be here when I return on the 26th. She calls her parents and her mother and Brother show up. Her mother starts into me about how everthing I am doing is bad for the kids, how Im trying to manipulate W etc.
I start to go through the Christmas parenting plan with W brother as W sits in living room seething. Not even offering any input to days etc. I ended up taking a couple less days that I thought I should have. Too many people pushing on me a gave in a little.


M:35 W 31
D's:6, 4 & 2
T:9 M:7
ILYBNILWY- Mar/14
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