Why do you know he never wanted to be married? That is not clear from here.

But he does have some serious issues and frankly they sound very strongly like they're beyond your ability to cope with alone at this point. Professional help is definitely called for. It was very clearly called for after the car issue. What happened with that?

Your words concern me too. You don't sound like you respect him. It doesn't sound like your needs are being met. What are you holding on to? What do you hope to have with him when you're 80?

Last edited by Maybell; 12/31/14 04:00 AM.
Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.