So I went back and read your brief thread from 2007 (episode about the cars). You halfway wanted to walk away then, but you stopped posting. What happened?

Did you two ever get counseling?

Why didn't your changes stick? Why does he think you're controlling?

Does your H have a diagnosis (or is that ruled out)? Medication?

I'm so sorry you lost a child. I always thought if that happened in my family there was no way my marriage would ever survive it. Yours sounds like it's always been a tremendous struggle.

WRT to the sleepless baby, do you practice the feed-wake-sleep cycle and sleep training?
I'm sorry you're going through this. Sending hugs.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.