Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc


"I'll still have to do all the work and he will travel MORE (-and- who- knows- what- else), while I"m stuck at home

without any passion or romance and my life is not what I wanted it to be....

(which, btw, is what I suspect she feels).


25 - I am absolutely sure this is how she feels or felt. Someone told me that a lot of WAS leave because they had something to compare to. IF she never had a EA or PA, then I believe she could have compared our current relationship to our relationship from a couple years ago and would realize just how far we have fallen.

I don't fault her for wanting something better.

I would like to say that I fault her for not working on it with me. However, honestly I will never know from her perspective how much she believes to have worked and how much I pushed her away.

The work & stress changed me, and I will not let it drive my life again.

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015