I must agree that the alien in my H always confuses me. We go from one side to the other. I went through the sexual remarks too. Even gave a few back; which H enjoyed. but I didn't know how far I could go with it as I didn't want to seem pursueing!
I know my H is not aggressive, so sometimes it's hard to decide what to do, pursue and do a 180, the old me. Or to not do nothing, more of the same old behavior when my H drifted away from me. Oh, light bulb moment! I think I may have found the answer!
Hope you didn't go too insane! Today is a day of rest.
