Bilbo - I know in my case that I have been a mess for almost a year because of this and I do know that the A can be a symptom of the real issues, but I do not know what to do about that any more without taking a stand for my boundaries. There will be no movement until I make it.

t-mom - I know it seems clear to us, but we don't know what their feelings and thoughts really are.

Thanks for your support too - I wish you the best.

Last edited by u-turn; 12/30/14 07:14 PM.

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015