Hey Hurt . Good to here from you . As yu can see by the title of my thread , it is a rollercoaster ride . Ive been in this predicament for over one year and i must say Ive gone through some profound changes . None of which i wanted but developed because of the sitch . My wife is a bit inward and never was a good communicator , it has turned out to be a major factor in our relationship demise . I have reached a point that denial has made way for acceptance .My W is a mess and I am the glue holding it all together . I only ask but a few things from her while shes still under our roof . She wants to keep the secret so it seems but my new boundaries are simple . Treat me with respect in front of our children and if she wants to continue to stay together for the kids then act like it . No more cold shoulders or snide comments etc. W too says affair is over but im skeptical
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
