I think you dont want to be meeting any of her needs while the OM is in the picture, that is his job not yours.
To break up an affair the light of day must be put on the affair.
Most affairs last about 2 years.
What needs are you meeting of hers?
I think that I'm still meeting her needs in that she is living at home still and I am doing most of the house work. I am the primary person who takes care of the kids. I put them to bed and that lets her retreat down to her room to "nap" before bed. I think also in my attempts to DB I have provided more words of affirmation, and appreciation when she does positive things.
How would I shine the light of day on the affair? A few of my friends know and obviously my family. But she keeps telling everyone on her side that he is just a friend. Both the PA and the EA she had in the past only lasted 6 months and 4 months. Or are my best friends right and I'm just being a doormat?
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
