Hiya! I'm Wonka and read your thread because I admire a mature 22-year old stepping up and doing some hard lifting to improve himself. Many 22-year olds are a lot more interested in keeping score on how many Silver Bullets they can down at one time on a Saturday night at some young people's bar where men and women neck out in a restroom stall.
I want to disabuse you of the notion that a reconciliation can happen in a month's time as you just lamented above in your post. I've been around the boards for a long time and the shortest reconciliation time was approximately 8 months. Even that is a rarity. Generally speaking, it typically occurs about 1 to 2 years of hoard core DBing. Mind you, it is not a guarantee.
It always comes down to the free-will choices of both parties to reconcile or not. However, your actions DO have influence on your WAW.
Remember this is a marathon...not the 50-yard dash.
I'm Wonka and read your thread because I admire a mature 22-year old stepping up and doing some hard lifting to improve himself. Many 22-year olds are a lot more interested in keeping score on how many Silver Bullets they can down at one time on a Saturday night at some young people's bar where men and women neck out in a restroom stall. 