I do not think loving someone who has made mistakes and fighting for a R that means the world to you makes you weak or stupid. But I do think we have to take stands. I am pretty sure that come the end of Jan., my W will say that she is not ready to end it with the OM. That is her choice, I have done all i can to save what we have for my girls and myself. She told me the other day that i should get some kind of award for being such a great husband and father. but again i know she is in way too deep with OM to see what she is giving up. So if she chooses him, then we will separate, that is the only move i see for me.
Just wanted to say to everyone on this forum that has been through what we are going through...thank you for your support. it really does help to know that you can come out the other side ok.
Me 36 W 33 D 7 D 4 M: 10 years T: 14 EA/PA: 06/12/14 - ongoing
