I think that I might have missed a golden opportunity last night. We had to drive home after leaving the kids with the grandparents, and I didn't say too much. We did talk a little bit but I think that it could have been an opportunity to say more or just be friendly. Once we were home she retreated pretty quickly to her room to get some "sleep" I heard her again talking to the OM while I was sitting in my room reading. Surprisingly it only bothered me a little bit.
I also had to deal with my two best friends telling me I should be done. To kick her out of the house, and make her feel the pain of her decisions to continue with this OM. What do people here think about that? Good idea or Bad? If she is continuing to have an EA, with video sexting should I continue to allow her to stay in the house? Will the EA ever end, or am I just supporting it by taking no action? Honestly my non accknowledgement of it or the last couple evenings events is a 180 from the way I would have handled it in the past.
I think you dont want to be meeting any of her needs while the OM is in the picture, that is his job not yours.
To break up an affair the light of day must be put on the affair.
