Vanilla,

I have read about LRT in DR. It is what I have been trying to employ since she left. I am not sure she is advancing as much as she is responding to my plea that she be nicer to me during this time. There has still been no relationship talk. There have been no signs of reconciliation.

You are right when you say the best thing for S is mom and dad together. I would love for that to happen - although that is not something I view as realistic right now. It is not in my control. Of course I want my W back and my family whole, but I have seen nothing from her that indicates that is what she wants.

I will look into a single parent support group - I think that is a fantastic idea.

I have been toying with the idea of fate lately. I can't remember where I read it (it may have even been MWD) but I read something about getting over a divorce that mentioned, "There may be someone else in the world that needs you more."


Me 23, Her 21
1S 2
M <1yr, T 7
WAW: She moved out 11/15/2014
She started D process 1/29/15