Here's a hug and a challenge. We start moving forward when we stop making excuses for what were not doing.

Have you read this?http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=56829&Number=2520879#Post2520879

Not my words but the quote from robx?

The only way through this, is through this.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss