Hi UD,
Yes, this does help! I had a general idea, but I never really thought about Bob never being condescending to people when they mess up. Like, who doesn't know how much mac-n-cheese costs? Nor, have I really evaluated whether or not he is manipulative. v. good!

I am a huge crazymaker, but suddenly, I have a newfound peace. (I think...) Could be fooling myself.

I have dimples too & believe that people that have them should show them off!!!

It's great that you see the correlation b/t your attitude and your fam's.

take care
karen