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[Dawn70]

I think you have made your FB decision by now, but I just wanted to add my 2 cents as that was something I struggled a bit with. My XH and I posted lovey dovey stuff to each other and have tons of pics on both of ours and I really struggled with how to handle it, but I just decided that it wasn't FB appropriate to announce a D. I privately messaged a few very close personal friends, apprising them of the situation, mostly to ask for their prayers and help in keeping me sane as I went through the process, but never publicly put anything out there. I did change my marital status once the D was final, which I know XH did as well, but I figure if someone wants to know they will ask and if they don't, they won't. It isn't worth all the comments and any negativity that might come from it to just throw it out there, FB style, but that is just my opinion. LOL

I am desperately hoping to get to that "at peace" place that you mentioned above. I have good days...days where I am ok...but mostly I just feel a sadness.