With the L meeting, just stick to the facts, keep your emotions in check (like you are negotiating a close), don't think too much about what she is going to do, we don't want any self-fulfilling prophesies now, right?
You can do this...
And yup, HER sandbox... just don't toss any cat turds into it, m'kay?
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm