This must be hard on a planner. I was a planner also. I had it all figured out. But you cant plan life. Life plans for you. I learned my lesson. Honestly I like it better now. I look at today and sometimes tomorrow. That is as far as I will plan. I let go of trying to control. Im much happier and healthy.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden