to live with or not to live with...

[Vanilla]

Short for T-mom.

My affectionate name for you!

((((T)))))


Vanilla

[T-Mom]

Love that, V!!!

[T-Mom]

So.... remember how I said I was seething on the inside? Well I'm not so much now... it kinda came out.... ooops! LOL... all and all though, I didn't really get as crazy as I could have. I wasn't really crazy, at all... just factual...

[T-Mom]

and now.... none of you are talking to me! ;O)

[TSquared2]

How did the seething come out?

Any thoughts on your underlying fear(s)?

[T-Mom]

My underlying fear is tough for me to examine.... I had awesome parents, always there for me, all about unconditional love, but a grandfather that sexually abused me when I was young.... the lasting impactful feeling there for me is shame, I guess.... humiliation..?

[T-Mom]

The seething came out pretty calmly, and one sided, and very direct. I did say that I wasn't trying to hurt his feelings, or judging him, but I felt that I needed to give him a dose of reality.

[T-Mom]

... but I did go too far in the quantity of information I relayed...

[TSquared2]

I did say that I wasn't trying to hurt his feelings, or judging him, but I felt that I needed to give him a dose of reality.

Nothing wrong with a truth dart or two every now and then, so what did you say ?

... but I did go too far in the quantity of information I relayed...

Lol!! I have NEVER done that

Short and to the point can be so difficult when there is so much in your head wanting to be expressed, at least it is to me.

[u-turn]

It's like the energy of the stretched rubber band. Sometimes it either has to break or let it go and snap someone (or sometimes it will snap you - you never know )