[quote=Starsky309][quote=Rzrback] Well, demanding has gone over like a lead balloon, so in that case it's Robx's approach.
I thought that's what I was doing. . . .
Starsky, are you advocating that I separate from her if she insists on seeing OM again?
I'm suggesting that you re-read the RobX "speech." You've never tried presenting anything even CLOSE to that to your wife. I think you're cherry-picking out the easy "I don't care what you do" parts (and even those, you've never SAID to her) and ignoring the entire "hey I'm moving on because this isn't working for me and I realize now that I deserve better" part.
There's NOTHING in there about "working on your marriage" while your wife continues to flaunt re-contact with OM in your face.
