My DB coach has recommended letting go and giving her the freedom to make her own choices (no smothering), but using the time we have to rebuild our relationship to the point that OM does not have the same effect.
Your coach is correct. Let go.. You can be perfectly happy with or without her. Life is good.
Women are attracted to Happy, confident, emotionally strong men......
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I'm not sure what my options for enforcing those boundaries are besides separating if she continues down this path.
Please live in the now. The moment.. Worry is unnecessary emotional waste of energy.... some people get addicted to worry... Once one worry is behind them, it's on to the next worry...
First thing is to let her go emotionally and be a happy, confident, emotionally strong man...
