Train, thanks, you may be repeating what others said, but with a twist. I feel so bad, and used up. and disrespected. I don't know where I can muster up the energy to even "fake it" my head is pounding, I've not slept. I have giving my self 100% to being my H's support person, I have no friends, family days away, work myself to the bone with his business, (only Guys work there) so not even work friends. Our daughter (20) has been spoiled by H. She too is rude and disrespectful. Lazy, drinks too much, I have never been allowed to discipline her as a child even. I am not an ugly, fat & lazy woman. I have always worked hard. I'm not sure where to even find the "bootstraps"
Me 56 H 60 Married 20 together still he says he's moving out He:Emotional A 9 mos.