ok. Thanks, Theoden & Starsky. Your advice is taken. It may take a while. So 1 more question, because I haven't brought up the subject of his OW to him since I first found out. Should I tell him that I know about the calls and texts, continuing? I also found out he purchased a $300 necklace for xmas, not for me or my daughter. (or any of his family) I had taken care of his family. Should I confront him about it? I could not sleep all night, I feel like I'm being tortured.
Born and raised in Vermont. my folks screamed at each other, my entire life, and still do. I didn't want to live like that.
Starsky, perhaps I am being naive.
Me 56 H 60 Married 20 together still he says he's moving out He:Emotional A 9 mos.
