You've gotten great advice. From reading the last few posts on this thread, I feel like you are in hurry up offense mode. And that's not always a good thing.
In regards to FB, I just say no. I'm an extremely private person by nature (I didn't tell anyone when I got married, waited 5 months to tell peeps I was expecting and the 2 friends that I needed some help from knew I was S.). That being said, I have posted that life has been kind of challenging over the last months and it's great to have good friends and family. That's all. I mostly post funny stuff about my kids so I've always felt no one needs to hear me air my laundry. Same for my blog. I suppose it's a personal preference.
In regards to dating again, only you can decide. However, what's the big hurry with your S's friend. She's recently removed from a long time R and you are still healing. Slow your roll! Just my 10 cents:-)
Let things transpire as they should. Hang in there!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer