D in 11th hr and now we are piecing! DB such help!

[willbwell]

piecing is no cake walk! I saw my IC today. still working on me( don't ever stop!) I am looking forward to the new year and all the potential and possibility that it brings.
the ow is still with h company but has moved to a different city. H still travels half the week. H tells me he ended it with ow. he showed me an email. she still will text him from time to time. I have asked him to ignore her texts. There is still some trust issues there for me.
This has been so incredibly hard. I know we still have a long way to go.
I will say, we are dating more...we've planned a couple of get-aways.

I journal everything. H knows that this is how I process. I am an open book. The questions about ow.. i know how the a started- flirty friendship crossed the line. H thought we were on "different paths" whatever the hell that was supposed to mean. It is painful for me to hear h say he said ILY to her. But I try and look at that as the old M. That is in the past and I want to look forward. I am not wearing my ring yet. Told h I want a new one.
I have plenty of questions about ow. However, i do not want to give her my head space. we can talk at some point later down the road when it isn't still fresh. H broke it off with her about july/aug... I know it can't be swept under the rug. Right now, I want our focus on us , dating and rebuilding...